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Surrogacy is complex, but getting answers shouldn't be. Get straight facts about compensation, matching, and legal protections by choosing your path below.
Surrogacy is complex, but getting answers shouldn't be. Get straight facts about compensation, matching, and legal protections by choosing your path below.
Surrogate FAQs
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Bornvia facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process with Bornvia?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming.
At Bornvia, we connect you to vetted agencies to handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1 business day. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Bornvia facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process with Bornvia?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming.
At Bornvia, we connect you to vetted agencies to handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1 business day. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Bornvia?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska OR Louisiana).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by IVF clinics, not just surrogacy agencies. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Bornvia?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska OR Louisiana).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by IVF clinics, not just surrogacy agencies. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before attending your medical screening appointment to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the application process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process?
Yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for medical screening (1-2 days) and the actual embryo transfer (2-3 days). All childcare costs, and travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. Clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) when you begin cycle medications and until you have a confirmed pregnancy.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Bornvia will match you with an agency that offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before attending your medical screening appointment to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the application process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process?
Yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for medical screening (1-2 days) and the actual embryo transfer (2-3 days). All childcare costs, and travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. Clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) when you begin cycle medications and until you have a confirmed pregnancy.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Bornvia will match you with an agency that offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of agencies who have Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure you are only presented profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! The community is incredibly diverse. Intended Parents come from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of families identify as LGBTQ+, and agencies work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once our partner agencies identify a potential fit, they will facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. Your agency will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or your agency can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, your legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of agencies who have Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure you are only presented profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! The community is incredibly diverse. Intended Parents come from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of families identify as LGBTQ+, and agencies work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once our partner agencies identify a potential fit, they will facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. Your agency will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or your agency can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, your legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Bornvia, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is agency specific and tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $80,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Bornvia does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account in line with your legal contract.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within one week upon submitting a receipt to your agency and/or escrow company.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is the priority. Typically, a $500,000 to $750,000 life insurance policy is secured for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Bornvia, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is agency specific and tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $80,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Bornvia does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account in line with your legal contract.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within one week upon submitting a receipt to your agency and/or escrow company.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is the priority. Typically, a $500,000 to $750,000 life insurance policy is secured for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs and your requested base compensation is relayed to all of our partner agencies.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we are happy to reconnect you to an agency with many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
Our dedicated team is here for you. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs and your requested base compensation is relayed to all of our partner agencies.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we are happy to reconnect you to an agency with many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
Our dedicated team is here for you. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Bornvia facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process with Bornvia?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming.
At Bornvia, we connect you to vetted agencies to handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1 business day. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Bornvia?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska OR Louisiana).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by IVF clinics, not just surrogacy agencies. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before attending your medical screening appointment to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the application process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process?
Yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for medical screening (1-2 days) and the actual embryo transfer (2-3 days). All childcare costs, and travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. Clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) when you begin cycle medications and until you have a confirmed pregnancy.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Bornvia will match you with an agency that offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of agencies who have Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure you are only presented profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! The community is incredibly diverse. Intended Parents come from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of families identify as LGBTQ+, and agencies work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once our partner agencies identify a potential fit, they will facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. Your agency will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or your agency can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, your legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Bornvia, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is agency specific and tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $80,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Bornvia does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account in line with your legal contract.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within one week upon submitting a receipt to your agency and/or escrow company.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is the priority. Typically, a $500,000 to $750,000 life insurance policy is secured for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs and your requested base compensation is relayed to all of our partner agencies.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we are happy to reconnect you to an agency with many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
Our dedicated team is here for you. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Bornvia facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process with Bornvia?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming.
At Bornvia, we connect you to vetted agencies to handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1 business day. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Bornvia?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska OR Louisiana).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by IVF clinics, not just surrogacy agencies. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before attending your medical screening appointment to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the application process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process?
Yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for medical screening (1-2 days) and the actual embryo transfer (2-3 days). All childcare costs, and travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. Clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) when you begin cycle medications and until you have a confirmed pregnancy.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Bornvia will match you with an agency that offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of agencies who have Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure you are only presented profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! The community is incredibly diverse. Intended Parents come from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of families identify as LGBTQ+, and agencies work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once our partner agencies identify a potential fit, they will facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. Your agency will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or your agency can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, your legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Bornvia, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is agency specific and tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $80,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Bornvia does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account in line with your legal contract.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within one week upon submitting a receipt to your agency and/or escrow company.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is the priority. Typically, a $500,000 to $750,000 life insurance policy is secured for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs and your requested base compensation is relayed to all of our partner agencies.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we are happy to reconnect you to an agency with many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
Our dedicated team is here for you. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
The Surrogate Journey
Become a Surrogate
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
The Surrogate Journey
Become a Surrogate
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
Agency Solutions
Partner With Us
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
Agency Solutions
Partner With Us
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
Surrogacy - Your Journey Guided by You. Built on Ethics.
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Disclaimer: Bornvia works exclusively on behalf of surrogates and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Bornvia.
All rights reserved.
Surrogacy - Your Journey Guided by You. Built on Ethics.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Bornvia works exclusively on behalf of surrogates and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Bornvia.
All rights reserved.
Surrogacy - Your Journey Guided by You. Built on Ethics.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Bornvia works exclusively on behalf of surrogates and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Bornvia.
All rights reserved.
Surrogacy - Your Journey Guided by You. Built on Ethics.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Bornvia works exclusively on behalf of surrogates and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Bornvia.
All rights reserved.